Tom Calcagni, Chief Communications Strategist, and author of Tough Questions - Good Answers.
Most people would rather see their dentist than speak in public.
Difference between answer and a message. Answers deal with facts – a message is crafted in advance to convey what I want to convey. (Some politicians are great at this – they turn an answer into their message.)
Three key messages to have prepared
What – the essence of myself, my business, my objective in 35 seconds
How – more detailed but the plan to accomplish the goal or task at hand
Why –
Know your message – but don’t have it memorized. Express it in good, clear language.
Three uses for messages:
- Responding to open-ended questions
- Reinforcing key thoughts
- Answering tricky questions
Most every interview begins with an open-ended question. So, why are you interested in this job? What is this new product you have?
You can answer a direct question and then use a message bridge to return to your message. Yes, I have this skill and have used throughout my career, add your message.
Tricky question types:
- Open-ended
- Speculative – we answer questions based on what we know at the time. Staying on message helps us to avoid speculating down the road. Start answer with “You know, none of us really know what is going to happen here, there are so many market influences… but what I do know is this….
- Loaded-preface – if the preface is significant – First, I really disagree with what you said there – but what I think about the rest of your question is….
- A or B – don’t get caught – my answer is C, D, E, F, G,…
- Third-party
- Mirror
Interviews are a symbiotic relationship. Interviewers expect you answer questions, but not that you’d be a willing participant in your own execution. You should expect the interviewer to ask questions, and not be surprised if they ask difficult questions.
Stand up to speak – gives more power to your voice, but movement allows us to expel nervous energy.
Knowing our messages and knowing how to use a message bridge to get to those messages – will improve the confidence level.
A media or a job interview is not the time for original thought – stay on message. Even if the interviewer asks the same question multiple times.
Our three messages are an important way to emphasize what is important to ME.
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